As a member of Date My Pet, you get one opportunity to send an introductory message to your matches. So don’t be shy; this will play a big part in your successful online dating experience.
Before you start, here are a few tips on how to avoid coming across too strong or making the reader cringe…
Do – Act positive!
A light-hearted, upbeat message will convince others that you’re a delightful person to be with. Would you go for someone who is complaining about their ex already or someone who is excited about meeting you?
Don’t – Write a Novel
A few sentences will be perfect, maybe even throw in a joke or two? But including your life story will have people closing the message before they reach the third paragraph…
Do – Include some details
Letting people know what you want will narrow your inbox down to members who are looking for the same thing. Love to paragliding on the weekends? Perfect, someone else might do too!
Don’t – Be a cliche
Yes you may well be kind, caring, loving, loyal etc. but we’ve heard it all before. The reader wants to know about YOU, give them something that makes them want to message you out of anyone else.
Now you’re a step further towards meeting your future partner (how exciting!), so get writing your introduction, set up some dates and you can thank us later…
